Jealousy Test

[WinterKiss]

Your girlfriend/wife is in another room. The phone rings and you answer it. It's a male voice (you don't recognize it) and he wants to talk to your girlfriend/wife. It appears they are on a first name basis.


How much would it bother you?

1-Extremely
2-Very much
3-Moderately
4-A little bit
5- Barely
6-Not at all

here when you can test your jealousy but bring up to us what you get as socre meaning:http://discoveryhealth.queendom.com/...bridged_1.html

my score is:55 whish means:
Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You fit right into this usual range - certain situations may spark feelings of jealousy, but generally you are not preoccupied with the fear of losing your partner. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are secure, strong, independent and rational enough to recognize the possibility of losing your partner to someone else, but not be consumed by it. That does not mean that you do not care; you would certainly be as sad or crushed as anybody else. However, you know that if it ever happens, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else. Such feelings give you a sense of security and the strength to trust, and allow you to be comfortable in the relationship. That, in turn, boosts the chances of a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

[cuty-pie]

My score = 46


What does this score mean?
Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You fit right into this usual range - certain situations may spark feelings of jealousy, but generally you are not preoccupied with the fear of losing your partner. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are secure, strong, independent and rational enough to recognize the possibility of losing your partner to someone else, but not be consumed by it. That does not mean that you do not care; you would certainly be as sad or crushed as anybody else. However, you know that if it ever happens, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else. Such feelings give you a sense of security and the strength to trust, and allow you to be comfortable in the relationship. That, in turn, boosts the chances of a lasting and fulfilling relationship.


I knew I was normal

[WinterKiss]

Envoyé par cuty-pie My score = 46 What does this score mean? Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You fit right into this usual range - certain situations may spark feelings of jealousy, but generally you are not preoccupied with the fear of losing your partner. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are secure, strong, independent and rational enough to recognize the possibility of losing your partner to someone else, but not be consumed by it. That does not mean that you do not care; you would certainly be as sad or crushed as anybody else. However, you know that if it ever happens, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else. Such feelings give you a sense of security and the strength to trust, and allow you to be comfortable in the relationship. That, in turn, boosts the chances of a lasting and fulfilling relationship. I knew I was normal

still awake a l3frita...siri tn3si sbeh you have school

[WinterKiss]

Envoyé par WinterKiss still awake a l3frita...siri tn3si sbeh you have school

no one is testing thier jealousy..maybe no one is jealous..

[malak23]

Without that test , I CONFESS I am more than jealous, I don't want to pass it coz I know 200% that I won't even fit into the most extreeeeem one (in the bad side of course) just kiddin', but I think that jealousy is a normal feeling, we all live it one day or another if we really love someone from THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS, I believe it is a coktail feeling, Fear mixed with anxiety with some low self esteem and a lot of betrayal Phobia (and the list goes on ).... to be continued

[WinterKiss]

[quote=malak23;3452619]Without that test , I CONFESS I am more than jealous, I don't want to pass it coz I know 200% that I won't even fit into the most extreeeeem one (in the bad side of course) just kiddin', but I think that jealousy is a normal feeling, we all live it one day or another if we really love someone from THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS, I believe it is a coktail feeling, Fear mixed with anxiety with some low self esteem and a lot of betrayal Phobia (and the list goes on ).... to be continued [/QU

yeah yeah i agree with you..and nice to confess that u are jealouse..

[Matsuzaka]

My score = 5

What does this score score mean?
Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You, on the other hand, appear to have a complete lack of jealous feelings. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are extremely secure, strong, and independent. You know that if your partner ever leaves you, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else.

oh my god, this is a low score, but i've been with the same girl for a while, maybe that has to do with it. plus she knows i would never cheat on her and i know deep in my heart she would never cheat on me.
so why be jealous, it's stupid.
jealousy is a sickness, you just need to find the right person you trust.
if you don't trust the person, then why be with that person?
but you know what, in USA, it's a weakness for men to be jealous, so you're raised in a certain way like not to show your emotions...

[WinterKiss]

Envoyé par Matsuzaka My score = 5 What does this score score mean? Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You, on the other hand, appear to have a complete lack of jealous feelings. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are extremely secure, strong, and independent. You know that if your partner ever leaves you, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else. oh my god, this is a low score, but i've been with the same girl for a while, maybe that has to do with it. plus she knows i would never cheat on her and i know deep in my heart she would never cheat on me. so why be jealous, it's stupid. jealousy is a sickness, you just need to find the right person you trust. if you don't trust the person, then why be with that person? but you know what, in USA, it's a weakness for men to be jealous, so you're raised in a certain way like not to show your emotions...

i agree with you..but arab men are very jealous and such one have his own way to show it..where are you in state?

[malak23]

Hi everyone ! I start to love this topic... Thx WinterKiss...

Matsuzaka you really do believe that a man jealousy is a weakness ?

Personally, I don't think so ... Occasional, I repeat again OCCASIONAL jealousy is natural and can help keep a relationship ALIVE, but if it becomes intense and irrational it can be very destructive ... Jealousy surely doesn't mean that you don't trust your partner, we can not translate jealousy to a lack of confidence in HIM or her ... but sometimes it comes to show one thing that every couple needs... it is " a REMINDER for both of them not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued ... Why will I care about a guy who think it is NORMAL that another guy looks weirdly to me ???! I am not standing next to a wall !!!

But let us all remember that jealousy is a sign of love. If your partner didn't value your relationship, and feel that you are in danger he wouldn't feel concerned !!! and remember guys how jealousy heightens emotions and makes love feel stronger ... How you feel happy after a SOOO little FIGHT with a guy you wished to kill 2 min ago ...and that this guy is in your life, sharing your moments .... and CARING about you ....

[WinterKiss]

Envoyé par malak23 Hi everyone ! I start to love this topic... Thx WinterKiss... Matsuzaka you really do believe that a man jealousy is a weakness ? Personally, I don't think so ... Occasional, I repeat again OCCASIONAL jealousy is natural and can help keep a relationship ALIVE, but if it becomes intense and irrational it can be very destructive ... Jealousy surely doesn't mean that you don't trust your partner, we can not translate jealousy to a lack of confidence in HIM or her ... but sometimes it comes to show one thing that every couple needs... it is " a REMINDER for both of them not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued ... Why will I care about a guy who think it is NORMAL that another guy looks weirdly to me ???! I am not standing next to a wall !!! But let us all remember that jealousy is a sign of love. If your partner didn't value your relationship, and feel that you are in danger he wouldn't feel concerned !!! and remember guys how jealousy heightens emotions and makes love feel stronger ... How you feel happy after a SOOO little FIGHT with a guy you wished to kill 2 min ago ...and that this guy is in your life, sharing your moments .... and CARING about you ....

Analysis closer to the logic.i agree totaly with what you say..jealousy is a love sign.it should just not go over and become kind of doubts.doubts are like weevils that plagued the wood..doubts also plauged the relationship and destroy it..jealous should be given and showen limited and specific doses..