Biggest Breakup Mistakes: part 3

[WinterKiss]

BREAKUP MISTAKE #3: Don't Argue Or Debate

Have you ever seen someone win an argument? I think we've all seen or been a part of arguments where one person states their views more effectively or convincingly.

But that doesn't necessitate a "win." To me, you only "win" an argument if you can change the other person's point of view. It's pretty rare for one person to say to the other- "you know, you're right. I was wrong but you've shown me the error of my ways. Thank you"

Now throw in the added emotions that a break up bring to an argument - rejection, anger, sadness, jealousy, defensiveness, just to name a few. It's darn near impossible to win an argument after a breakup

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