Seul très seul....

Assalam Aleikom, Ma future femme inch'Allah, (une magnifique marocaine), vient de partir au maroc, à Agadir. Je reste seul sur paris pour 1 mois et je souhaite simplement vous faire comprendre comme il est difficile d'être séparé de la femme de sa vie, même pour une courte durée. Alors profitez un maximum de vos proches, maris, femmes, parents, car c'est quand vous êtes séparés que vous comprennez à quel point ils vous sont cher.

[zebra13]

tu penses pas que tuexagere un peu!!!!
elle serait morte j aurais compris mais la t en fais un peu trop!
yeah

[ijou1]

Si toi tu te sens TRES seul, faut pas demander comment doivent se sentir les célibataires!!! :-D

C'est normal, au moins ça prouve à quel point tu l'aimes! t'affoles pas elle va te revenir ta moitié!

Dites moi les gars ou lesfilles, car je profite de ce posting pour me poser cette question, est-ce que la masturbation est interdite par l'islam? :-?

t'es vraiment dégulace mego!!!
masturbation !!
t'auras pu posé ta question ds un forum classé X !!!
wash!! wash !!!

[achelhiy]

je croit pas ke mego ai ete degueulasse!
en fait c vrai kil manke de tact pr dire certain truc!
ms il a raison de soulever la kestion!

je suis sur kil conait la reponse! le mister mego ms il veut juste voir lavis des gens! moi ossi ca minteresse de voir ce ke les gens en pense vraiment! ca permet de voir comment il imagine lislam!

[guern]

Salam,

voici une reponce d'un moufti que j'ai trouve sur le site de islam online. Les scholars ont des jujements different sur ce sujet:

is oral sex and masturbation in islam haram?
Answer Oral sex is not haram. Masturbation is not haram, but it is a disputable issue for many scholars. One should not adopt it as a solution. You should do your best to keep away from fitnah (sexual stimulants) and plan to get married as soon as possible. The prophet (pbuh) recommended fasting for those who have no access to marriage.

[guern]

un autre article et a chaccun de prendre sa decision.



Masturbation
by NZINGHA SHABAZZ

Reproduced with permission from Islam and Infertility

Note:The author told us that this article was written with the issue of sperm collection for semen analysis and ART procedures in mind and not as a general overview on the issue of masturbation as a means of sexual release. So we added two brief editor's comments with that issue in mind at the appropriate places.
[Masturbation] becomes an issue [to Muslims, for example, with] the collection of semen. So in order to do this, in most cases one would have to indulge in the act of masturbation.
Throughout the centuries, the majority of scholars have ruled that masturbation is haram (forbidden). Even with such a ruling there is no set punishment for the act itself. The main argument of making it haram is:

(The Believers) who abstain from sex,
Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or (the captives) whom their right hands possess - for (in their case) they are free from blame. [Qur'an 23:5-6]
It is stated that the only halal [allowable] time to use the sexual organ is outlined in this ayat [verse]. That any use of the organ in any other way sexually is to transgress the boundaries given in Qur'an making one a transgressor.
But those whose desires exceed those limits are transgressors. [Qur'an 23:7]
It is important to note at this point, this ruling does not apply when masturbation involves ones wife. Meaning that if a wife is sexually gratifying her husband in such a way, it is permissible. [For example, in the case where the wife is in a very advanced stage of pregnancy, and sexual intercourse with penetration, either fully or partially, is not advisable or practicable, then the wife's hand may be used for gratification of her husband's sexual needs -- Editor] Because the man has a right to receive enjoyment from his wife. [See also the paragraph beginning with "A young husband . . .from al-Ghazzali's 'Ihya Ulum-id-din." -- Ed.]
Now while I personally feel this happens to be a very minute issue of infertility, many Muslims point to this when a couple seeks treatment. They neglect that there is a basic ideal within Islam that if one must do something that is normally haram [forbidden] by necessity, then it becomes permissible. We see this point very clearly in the forbidance of certain foods, but Allah has also stated along side the prohibition:

...But if one is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits - then is he guiltless. For God is Oft-forgiving Most Merciful. [Qur'an 2:173]
But (even so) if a person is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits -
thy Lord is Oft-forgiving Most Merciful. [Qur'an 6:145]

This ideal is not limited to only that of food, but is an accepted general rule within shariah (Islamic Law). This general acceptance can also be seen in the actions of Umar (r.a.) who lifted the punishment for theft in the time of famine. This same point has been brought into discussion by Abul Ebrahim, which he states:
"But the question before us now is whether it would be forbidden under Islamic law to masturbate in order to obtain the semen so as to have one's wife impregnated with it through artificial insemination. Support of permitting it should be argued on the basis that engaging in the act is not to derive pleasure but, rather, to obtain semen for the specific purpose of trying to solve the problem of infertility. Permission would come from the purpose oriented concept of the higher goals contained in the juristic principle that 'necessity renders the forbidden permissible." [1]
What a couple could choose to do is have the wife "help" the husband collect the semen. Or keep in mind that Allah (swt) does not want Islam to be a hardship for us, but rather an easement. And He is oft forgiving and most Merciful to those committed by necessity.
References

[1] Abortion, Birth Control and Surrogate Parenting An Islamic Perspective, by Abul Fadl Mohsin Ebrahim; American Trust Publications ISBN 0-89259-110-2

[2] All Qur'anic Translations by Yusuf Ali

Ok, donc pour ce pauvre homme marié, il doit se calmer durant toutes l'abscence de sa femme libératrice.

On va pas lui dire de faire de la prison mais on lui suggurer de faire un sport comme le body building et des bonnes doses d'anabolisants.

NOBODY

[najette]

Kan mon mari et moi on etait sense ne pas se voir pdt un certain temps, on se rejouissait a l´avance de savoir kon allait se manquer!!!!! penser intensivement a lotr kan il est a des kilometres! se rejouir du retour de l´un et de l´autre... reflechir a distance des eventuels problemes qui avaient lieu, s´adoucir avec le temps! Et se jeter dessus kom des sauvages au retour. C´est tres bon pour une relation!!! Kan on etait un peu enervé l´un de l´autre on proposait meme ke l´un de nous bouge kelkes jours.


Et au fait, c´est la meme chose avec mes filles, kan on commence a se prendre la tete, je les envoie chez les grands parents kelkes jours. Ca me fait du bien, ca leur fait du bien!!!

najette