Friendship between man/woman

[Salahadeen]

Salam alaykum everyone

In my view, I beleive that there is a friendship between man and woman..... BUT not all men or women keep it as friendship only sometimes yes but sometimes no.it depents from the person. anyway, I Would like to see ur comments about that issue people...Do u think it can be a real friendship between a man and a woman do you think its possible?Discuss pls...but politely and seriously:-)))
have a great day

[farid_h]

Envoyé par Salahadeen Do u think it can be a real friendship between a man and a woman do you think its possible?

Of course it's possible. But many friendships have been ruined by love (and I don't just mean the physical variety of love...). If friendship couldn't survive the end of love, it was never meant to be.

[zineinzan]

It really depends, but there is a risk that both people want the relationship to becom absolute and then...feel tempted to know the other even more.

[Matsuzaka]

it's very healthy for boys to grow up having girls as friends and for girls to grow up having boys as friends.
to be psycologically healthy, girls have to play with boys and boys have to play with girls.
it's very correct to let them have relationships as friends.
i had girls as friends since i was a child like they were my sisters, we shared everything, we talked about everything, things u wouldn't talk about to other people.
once in a club, some punk picked on my friend and she didn't like it, she came running to me, the dude was that huge, i was like what the f**k are u doing fuck off dude...
this guy could have killed me, but after one phone call his ass got busted big time.
it was not fun, that dude could have killed me.
but that friendship.
friendship is a present, it's a gift.
once it's given to you, you should never lose it.
and keep it til the day you die.

[farid_h]

Envoyé par Matsuzaka friendship is a present, it's a gift. once it's given to you, you should never lose it. and keep it til the day you die.

I totally agree, Matsu. But isn't friendship a two-way lane? What would you do if your lady-friend turned her back on you for whatever reason? Would you still be (or willing to be) her friend, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years from now? How faithful would your friendship be?

[Matsuzaka]

Envoyé par farid_h I totally agree, Matsu. But isn't friendship a two-way lane? What would you do if your lady-friend turned her back on you for whatever reason? Would you still be (or willing to be) her friend, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years from now? How faithful would your friendship be?

farid, life is 1 lane not 2 lanes, life always has to go forward, it's like a train without breaks following the same rail-way and can't stop.
hearts get broken from both sides, but the train is not gonna stop for us to cry. the train has to go on...
but friendship will always exist til the end of time.

[farid_h]

Envoyé par Matsuzaka farid, life is 1 lane not 2 lanes, life always has to go forward, it's like a train without breaks following the same rail-way and can't stop. hearts get broken from both sides, but the train is not gonna stop for us to cry. the train has to go on... but friendship will always exist til the end of time.

I admire your optimism and coolness, matsu-san. It's not exactly samurai-like, but I love it! . BTW, I'm clinging to a "semi-broken friendship" for over 20 years now and I know all too well what it's like and how much this breakup hurts - again and again.. much more than a vanilla breakup or big friendship fading away. Yet it's worth it: I know a time will come when real friends will be reunited and be friends again, and may it require a whole life. And if it didn't happen during our lifetime, at least it has been worth it to live with the classical hope of it-could-have-been.

Never give up on your friends.

[Matsuzaka]

Envoyé par farid_h I admire your optimism and coolness, matsu-san. It's not exactly samurai-like, but I love it! Never give up on your friends.

what makes you so sure im not Samurai ?
farid, u'll be surprised.

[Fairy]

Envoyé par farid_h BTW, I'm clinging to a "semi-broken friendship" for over 20 years now and I know all too well what it's like and how much this breakup hurts - again and again.. much more than a vanilla breakup or big friendship fading away. Yet it's worth it: I know a time will come when real friends will be reunited and be friends again, and may it require a whole life. And if it didn't happen during our lifetime, at least it has been worth it to live with the classical hope of it-could-have-been. Never give up on your friends.

Wow, very well said!
I second that!

[ezgo]

[yes why not

frienship must be build up as any type of relationship

give time to time

but , but be carreful on the network
many surprises could happen
good luck anyway